You did everything right but still feel like you failed
Finally heal your childhood wounds that made you snap at your kids, hold grudges, and yell at yourself - without abandoning your faith, neglecting your family, or spending years in therapy
Yes, I need this breakthrough
You are the mom who does it all
Great career. Beautiful Kids. Active in church.Â
Everyone thinks you have it all together. They ask for advice and say, "How do you do it all?"Â
But you know they have no idea what it takes... what it feels inside.Â
You show grace to people you barely know, but you SCREAM your head off to your kids when they make a mess (though, after you reminded them a gazillion times). Immediately, you drown in guilt because this is what your parents did to you, and you promised yourself that you wouldn't do that.Â
You rehearse how to be calmer and better today, but your husband's old habits (that you brought up hundreds of times) set you off to a nagging match.Â
"A Proverb 31 woman should not be like this. What's wrong with me?"
Here's what nobody tells you: This isn't about trying harder.
You've probably already tried:
- Every parenting book on your nightstand
- Morning devotionals (when you can squeeze them in)
- "Taking breaks" and "self-care" (as if you have time)
- Praying for more patience (daily, desperately)
But nothing changes because the problem isn't in your present—it's in your past.
As a child psychiatrist and a woman who was exactly where you are, I discovered something.Â
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High-achieving Christian women have this pattern:
âś“ The Perfectionist Wound: You can't accept compliments because deep down, you still feel like the child who had to earn love through achievement
âś“ The Control Spiral: You over-plan every scenario because uncertainty triggers that helpless feeling from childhood
âś“ The Emotional Whiplash: You go from calm to rage in seconds because you never learned it was safe to feel angry as a child
âś“ The People-Pleasing Prison: You say yes when you mean no because disappointing others feels like a threat to your survival
âś“ The Shame Cycle: Normal mistakes feel catastrophic because you're still the little girl who had to be "good" to be loved
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These don't say anything about who you are.
They show what you've been through.
"I was a psychiatrist who couldn't heal herself."Â
In 2018, I hit rock bottom.
Despite my medical training, despite my faith, despite doing everything "right"—I was ready to walk away from my marriage. My health was failing. I was a ticking time bomb with my own children.
People said "just delegate" or "let go and let God."
Those words just added guilt on top of my guilt. Because I couldn't. Then, that made me feel like an even bigger failure.
Then I discovered what was really happening: My inner child wound was running my adult life.
INTRODUCING
Be Still to Move Forward
A gentle, faith-integrated path to silencing the inner critic you inherited, healing and nurturing your inner child, and becoming the unique Proverb 31 woman you were meant to be
This isn't another course telling you to try harder, pray more, or be more grateful.
This is the missing piece—the work nobody taught you how to do.
In just 10-15 minutes a day for 4-5 weeks, you'll finally understand:
- Why you react so strongly to certain triggers and what that means
- Where did your inner critical voice start, and how to stop it
- How to parent yourself so you can leave a peaceful and present legacy for your children
Moms like you are already finding FREEDOM
From Crying Fits to Calm Presence
"I used to feel overwhelmed at any sense of conflict and would overcompensate to make an angry person happy. Now I can protect my space, remove myself from the situation, and re-engage when the situation is productive and safe."Â
Your Journey to Emotional Freedom and Purpose
Module 1Â
Introduction & Awareness
Finally understand what's really happening when you "lose" it and that you are not alone
✓ Emotional Awareness Quiz - discover your starting point
✓ Why this wasn't your willpower or discipline problem
âś“ Creating your Mental & Spiritual Vision Board - who you will beÂ
âś“Â RPC Method for daily practice of inner healing
Module 2
Real-Life Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Immediate relief from the inherited inner criticÂ
âś“ Identify your "uh-oh" moments (when you are triggered)
✓ Uncovering the lies you believed about yourself
âś“Â The Thought Reframing Exercise that stops the spiral instantly (with a visual chart)
âś“ Experience immediate, real-time emotional relief in your first session
Module 3
Inner Child Exploration
The breakthrough moment that changes everything
✓ Seeing your inner child through current triggers
âś“Â Understanding what she needed (and never got)
âś“ Dr. Kim guiding you through validation exercises
âś“ Finally, giving yourself the compassion you give everyone else
Module 4
Parenting Your Inner Child
Practical tools for when real life happens
âś“Â Understanding your Defense Mechanism
âś“Â The Solution Party - discovering you have more options than you thinkÂ
âś“ How to respond to mistakes with grace (with yourself and others)
âś“ Breaking the generational cycle once and for all
Module 5
Summary & Celebration
Locking in your transformation
âś“ Recognizing how far you've come
âś“ Tools for continuing your journeyÂ
âś“Â Reflection & Celebration for your new milestone
Why this works when everything you tried hasn't
Like me, you probably tried meditation, praying, exercising, and probably getting a therapist. Those are all helpful things, but they don't get to the root of the problem.
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This isn't talk therapy. While therapy has its place, it has a 16-61% dropout rate. You need something that fits into your actual life as a busy mom. Also, you know your values, beliefs, and culture now vs. waiting for a stranger to "get you."Â
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 This isn't just prayer. God gave us wonderful tools for healing—this course teaches you how to use them.
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 This isn't surface-level, fleeting positivity. We're going to the root, healing the source, not managing symptoms for your sustainable growth.
You get:
- Evidence-based techniques from a Board-certified child psychiatrist
- Faith-integrated healing that honors your beliefs
- Practical exercises you can do during kids' naptime or after bedtime
- A psychiatrist, who's walked this exact path, guiding you
No more Spiraling means more time for Connection
From Shut Down to Open-Minded
Listen to Jenn sharing how the ability to stop her guilt spiral meant she has more time and energy to listen to her husband and to communicate her thoughts... leading to mutual understanding and connection!
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Choose Your Path to Healing
I understand that everyone's style is different. Some of you are ready to dive in independently. Others need more personal guidance. That's why I've created two ways to experience Be Still to Move Forward:
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OPTION 1: SELF-PACED COURSE
Perfect for the independent learner who's ready to transform on her own timeline
You receive:Â
âś… LIFETIME access to all 5 modules
âś… Evidence-based exercises and worksheets
âś… All future updates included forever
âś… 14-Day Money-Back Guarantee
Investment: $597 (Less than 2-3 therapy sessions)
OPTION 2: VIP GUIDED EXPERIENCE
For the mom who wants a thorough understanding, personalized support, and an accelerated breakthrough
Everything in the Self-Paced Course PLUS:
âś… 5 Private 1:1 Sessions with Dr. Kim (45 minutes each)
âś… Personalized healing plan based on your specific triggers
âś… Voice message support between sessions
✅ Unlimited email support during the coaching season
âś… Custom exercises tailored to your family dynamics
âś… Graduation certificate upon completion
Your 1:1 sessions include:
- Session 1: Deep dive into your unique childhood wounds
- Session 2: Identifying and reframing your specific triggers
- Session 3: Meeting and healing your inner child together
- Session 4: Creating your personalized self-parenting protocol
- Session 5: Integration and future-proofing your healing
Investment: $1,997 (Valued at over $4,500)
⚡ LIMITED: Only 5 VIP spots available per cycle
Meet Dr. Kim
Dr. Uejin Kim, MD is a dual board-certified child, adolescent, and adult psychiatrist who discovered that all her training couldn't heal her own dysregulated spirals—until she found the missing piece.
- Public Health Bachelor's degree from Johns Hopkins University
- Medical degree from Paul L. Foster School of Medicine
- Residency and Fellowship at UTHSCSA in San Antonio, TX
- Chief Fellow during Child & Adolescent Psychiatry Fellowship
- Christian psychiatrist integrating faith and evidence-based healing
- Mom & Wife who's walked this exact path and found freedom
"In 2018, I was ready to give up. Now I can say 'No' to comparisons, guilt, and what-ifs, and 'Yes' to my priorities, preferences, and presence. This journey changed everything—for me and my family."
Let's Put This in Perspective
Traditional Therapy Route:
- Weekly sessions: $150-250 per session
- 6 months minimum: $3,900-6,500
- High dropout rate: 16-61%
- Generic approach, not specialized for Christian moms
- No lifetime access to materials
Be Still to Move Forward:
- One-time investment: $597 (or $2,997 for VIP)
- Complete in 4-5 weeks
- Lifetime access to materials
- Specialized for your exact situation
- Created by someone with a medical degree who's walked your path
The real question isn't "Can I afford this?" It's "Can I afford NOT to heal?"
"But I've Already Tried Everything..."
You've read the parenting books. You've prayed for patience. You've tried to "let go and let God."
This is different because we're not trying to change you — in fact, nothing is wrong with you. We're healing the wounded child inside who needs attention and protection. We've found that this is the path to true healing and clarity
"I Don't Have Time for Another Course"
10-15 minutes a day. 4-5 weeks. That's it.
Less time than you spend feeling guilty after yelling. Less time than you spend scrolling, trying to numb the shame. Less time than you spend apologizing and trying to repair.
Finally, a self-care time investment that continues to give back.Â
"What If It Doesn't Work for Me?"
That's why you have 14 days to try it risk-free.
But more importantly, you're not broken. You're not too far gone. You're a high-achieving woman who's accomplished everything else she's set her mind to.
This time, you are going to spend that attention to detail and strategic patience on yourself.
Your Children Are Watching. And Learning.
Every day you wait is another day of:
- Modeling anxiety and perfectionism for your daughters
- Teaching your sons that love comes with emotional whiplash
- Reinforcing the very patterns you inherited
But it's also another day you're suffering unnecessarily.
You've already tried doing this alone. You've already tried harder. You've already prayed for change.
Now it's time to heal.
The Mom You Want to Be Is Already Inside You
She's just buried under years of wounds, expectations, and shame.
It's time to let her breathe. To let her lead. To let her love—yourself and your children—without the weight of the past.
Your family doesn't need a perfect mom. They need a healed one.
Be Still to Move Forward gives you the map, the tools, and the support to finally become her.
Choose Your Experience
14-Day Money-Back Guarantee • Lifetime Access with Updates • Evidence-Based, Spirit Led
Most Frequently Asked Questions
These are questions I get asked most often. If you have any other questions, let us know at [email protected]
+ What's the difference between the Self-Paced and VIP options?
+ Can I upgrade from Self-Paced to VIP later?
+ Can I work through this with my spouse?
+ Is there a payment plan?
+ Will this conflict with my faith? Do I have to be a Christian to take this course?
+ What is a 14-day money back guarantee?
+ What if I'm not ready to face my childhood?
+ Is there ongoing support?
P.S. I know you're scared. Scared to hope that things could actually change. Scared to look at the pain you've been carrying. Scared that you might fail at this, too.
But here's what I know about you: You found this page because you're ready.
Not perfect. Not fully prepared. But ready.
Ready to stop the cycle. Ready to stop hurting the people you love most. Ready to finally be the mom your heart knows you can be.
Your inner child has been waiting for this moment—the moment when you finally turn toward her instead of away. When you choose healing over hiding.
This is that moment.
And if you're still reading this, it's because something deep inside you knows it too.
The only question left is: Will you listen to that voice? Or will you let fear decide your family's future?
P.P.S. The VIP Experience spots really are limited to just 5 per cycle. This isn't a marketing tactic—it's because I personally conduct each session and I'm committed to giving each VIP member my full attention and energy. If you're feeling called to the deeper work, don't wait. Your spot—and your healing—are waiting.
Questions? Email [email protected]